I have always wanted 3 kids, however after we had 2 we decided to wait until we had more money and a bigger house ... we just put the 3rd baby talk on the back burner...
Well now my husband has a great job, we have extra money, a mini van, and we just bought a 4 bedroom house... and yet now my husband does NOT want another baby...
I think this is unfair... I mean the reason we chose the 4 bedroom is because of another baby, the reason we bough the minivan is so there would be enough room for a 3rd baby.
I finally made him sit down with me and talk about why he is so set on no new babies... and he said that while I have been babysitting ( i take care of a little boy who has down syndrome) ... he said he is afriad if we have another baby it could have something wrong with it, like that ( or worse) ... and that he doesnt think he can handle it...and that he doesnt even want to talk about it anymore.
i am so devestated I dont even know what to do...I want another baby, I know I am not done having children, and i think it is unfair that he gets to make this choice by himself when we had planned on another for so long, I mean there is more of a chance that one of our kids could be seriously harmed in a car accident, does that mean we need to stop taking them places... and even if we do have another and they have some sort of mental problem, that doesnt mean we wont love it and take care of it...
Asked by Anonymous at 4:59 PM on Jun. 20, 2011 in Relationships
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