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I'm 17 years old....Am I pregnant?

The last day of my last period was December 3rd, and me and my bf had sex on the 5th. I have been having reallllly bad tummy pains and cramps for 2 days, and I started spotting yesterday, I was wondering if this could be a sign of pregnancy. I got some pregnancy tests for later on in the upcomming weeks. The guy I am with is very nice and loving, but we have only been together for 3 weeks, but we have been friends since 3rd grade. I dont like waiting, and this anticipation is killing me.. also yesterday I started having back pains.. I do work at a daycare, so maybe its from that, but the cramps are SO painful!!! I need some answers from some people who have went through this, I will be so happy if I am pregnant, and I will be okay if Im not. Thank you and I cant wait to hear from all of you.

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Stephanie0099

Asked by Stephanie0099 at 10:11 PM on Dec. 12, 2008 in Pregnancy

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  • Well your just gonna have to wait because we can't tell you
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:15 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • IM 17 yrs old and i have a 10 month old son .. ITS REALLY HARD BEING A MOM AND MORE WHEN U ONLY 17 YRS OLD. i married my baby father we been together for 3 yrs and with his help it still hard..
    if u having unprocted sex and u having bad tummy pain it could be a infection.. that had happen to me in the being of our relationship.. i thought i was preggo 2... the pain got really bad i want to the er and it was a bacteria infection.. like 1 yr later i got preggo with now my 10 month old..
    u should really think about it.. some guys could treat u like no other..u should sit down with him and talk about the changes there is of u getting preggo and see what he says..
    but 2 real i u havent finish school and dont have a good job that u could pay of a apartment with then i really think that u should think about next time u lay on the back..
    yamil519

    Answer by yamil519 at 10:24 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I am 19 and a mom of 3. A 2yr old a 1yr old and i will be having another in a couple weeks. It is hard being a mom so young but we do what we have to do just like women who have their kids later in life.
    Now I dont know if you could show signs of pregnancy ALREADY it has only been a few days. Most times you dont til at least a couple weeks. I hope you feel better and Good Luck.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:30 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • Having sex means you could be pregnant. While it is unlikely that you got pregnant 2 days after your period, it is even more unlikely that you are feeling symptoms already. I don't really think you are, but you will know in January. That would most likely be your best time to test.
    reflect1light

    Answer by reflect1light at 10:32 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • hun, all you can do is test and hope for the best. yes spotting happens when implantation happens... its usually 3 days long... very light and of course spotty.
    Mommyof2gurls22

    Answer by Mommyof2gurls22 at 10:47 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • I am 19 and a mom of 3. A 2yr old a 1yr old and i will be having another in a couple weeks. It is hard being a mom so young but we do what we have to do just like women who have their kids later in life.
    Now I dont know if you could show signs of pregnancy ALREADY it has only been a few days. Most times you dont til at least a couple weeks. I hope you feel better and Good Luck.
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    Good grief!!!
    sgr123

    Answer by sgr123 at 10:50 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • sgr123

    What the hell is that suppose to mean....you didnt even answer her question you just replied to say something about me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • heyy, I'm 17 too and i also want a baby. i have unprotected sex with my boyfriend also [always have] but we've been dating for a 1 1/2 years now, you need to think alot before you just have a baby. like do you love him, does he love you, will he be there for you, i mean 3 weeks holyshit! but was that your first time having sex, cos i freaked out after my first time to. if you are preg good luck to you. i hope someone can answer my question and help me too. =[ whatever you do dont ever get the depo shot seriously, you think you are pregnant, and i dont know if i can cos that shot!
    Rachelxbby

    Answer by Rachelxbby at 11:18 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • : Rachelxbby: you need to think alot before you just have a baby. like do you love him, does he love you, will he be there for you,

    come on now thats not all you have to think about..
    can you TAKE care of that child and its needs.
    can you afford the baby.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:27 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

  • You need to realize that if you have a baby it's going to be ALL about the baby. It;s no longer you anymore there isn't going out to party or drink or getting up to leave and go some where whenever you want. And even if the guy your with wants to stay and help you and be there for the baby you two WILL have problems. It's hard enough getting to know someone in a relationship setting without adding to it. Cause i like i said you can't just up and leave whenever you want it's hard enough for married couples when you have kids to get out and just have dinner alone. You need to build and work on the relationship you have with this man if this in the end who you choose to be with. And to answer your question depending on what your period was like you could be preggo.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:50 PM on Dec. 12, 2008

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