still in love with my dd's father things just arent working out. some days he wants us to be together most days not. he wants to be in her life but he hasnt changed or took the time to grow up and be a dad. should i let him be there when he can and leave him or should i give him a chance to grow up and be a man??? btw he is 22 almost 23 and says he realli loves us he just doesnt know how to show it and all that good stuff???? we have known each other for 7 years dated for 3 and i find it really hard to just try and let him go ahhh help:(Answer Question
Answer by dancer at 11:32 AM on Jun. 21, 2011
Counseling may get him to see that kids need an adult dad, not one that acts like a kid. To me it seems that part of him wants to grow up but part (a bigger part for now) wants him to still be irresponsible. He may also need to see that there are ways to find a balance between both to some degree.
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