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Haveing probs in the bed adult content

when me and my hubby want to get physical he cums in like 10 sec and he gets mad about it and he is wondering wats the problem we need help to figure it out . please help

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:48 AM on Jun. 21, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • have him stop whatever he's doing when he feels it and have him go down on you or finger you and then start again. he can also squeeze his penis at the base to restrict bloodflow when he feels ready to cum. Cockrings are useful also.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:50 AM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • Have him get it checked. It can be many things.

    Answer by booger14 at 11:50 AM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • Just do some more fore play & he may last longer the second time! =)

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:51 AM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • a restricting cockring should be the first thing you can take awhile for a man to try to control when he gets off, so try some "accessories" that will help him find that control. dont be scared by the title, but you should be able to find something suiting here:

    Answer by AydensMommy1109 at 12:25 PM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • I know some guys that are like that and what they do it before they are about to mess around they go make themselves cum then when they are going to mess around with their partner it will take much longer. Good luck!

    Answer by AzMom520 at 12:29 PM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • He should definitely talk to his Doc about it to... could be caused my a medical problem!!


    Answer by Crafty26 at 11:35 PM on Jun. 21, 2011

  • This can be caused by lots of issues. Nerves, stress, drugs, alcohol, performance anxiety, and lack of practice!
    If you are going to be intimate, he should masturbate first. Then it should take him longer the 2nd time.
    If he's drunk or high- that HIS problem- he's got to choose what's more important.
    If a guy has it in his head that some sort of problem is going to happen, it WILL happen. He becomes anxious and his focus isn't on enjoying sex, he's having a panic attack the entire time!
    If you have bad sex, and then shut him down for a month because YOU are frustrated, he takes that to heart, and in most cases the situation will not improve.

    You can try cock rings or prolonging creams, and they will help, temporarily, but whatever the root of the problem is has to be addressed.


    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 1:24 AM on Jun. 22, 2011

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