My husband and I had a "quick romance" ... we got engaged a month after meeting, got married a few months after that, got pregnant , and then a bought a house... all within 6 months... Before meeting each other we both came out of other relationships, i dated a guy for almost a year but broke up with him about 2 months prior to meeting my husband, and he dated a girl for about 3 months and also broke up with her right before we met.
When we first started dating we had a conversation about our pasts, and that was it... we just told each other about the things we thought each other should know, and then went on with our lives...
there was a couple of instances where my ex tried to contact me, but obviously I wasnt interested and my husband knew this ( this happened before we got married) ... and it wasnt a problem because he trusted me , and he knew it was my exs problem... the same with his ex, she tried to call and text him ..but I actually worried about it because I knew she had a little bit of craziness to her ( we live in a small town, everyone knows everyone) , but just tried to put her behind us. ( I wasnt at all worried about my husband with her.. it was more like afriad she would slash my tires or things like that -- THAT kind of crazy) ...
So a little bit of time went by and we never heard from her and it was nice, then I heard that she has been asking everyone things about me, that she wants to know everything about me, and now she has been showing up at my work...I ama beautician and i work in a salon, she was never a client before, and now she comes in every 2 weeks.. i do not do her hair , so i try to ignore her, but one of my coworkers/friend ( who does her hair) said that she will come in for her appt. and if I am not there she will reschedule it ... Our salon ( my aunt owns it, and I am a partner ) ... has never been broken into or has any problems until after she started coming in to and now it has been broken into twice... and my station is the only thing that has been damaged ( my curling irons would be turned on and laid on something , and my pictures would be ripped up...I had a cute little frame with my baby's ultrasound picture in it, and it was taken ! and I KNOW that I have seen her drive past our house on a daily basis.. and we live out in the country, so it isnt like she has to go past our house...
I am afraid of her... my uncle is a cop and he said it would be hard to prove anything since there isnt actual proof that it is her doing all of this..
Asked by Anonymous at 9:30 PM on Jun. 21, 2011 in Relationships
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