I have a friend and we use to be best friends for almost 10 years...
But lately we have really drifted apart, to where we only talk maybe once every week or so.. and the last time i seen her was over a month ago....it is mainly becuase I have a job during the day now, and by the time its over, it is time to make dinner and spend time with my husband and kids... and on the few times when i have been able to go see her, she has had other plans....
Well lately she has been putting how sick she is on facebook, and I have told her to go to the doctors and such and she will say no... she even told me one day that she can hardly breathe and I said you really need to go because it was so serious... well the next day she called to see if I could watch her kids while she rested... but i said I really couldnt because me and my kids were really sick also ( we had went to the doctors the night before and he said we were very contagious) , in fact when she called I had just got done puking... so obviously I didnt feel up to watching the kids, nor did I want to get them sick...but i tried to help her think of someone who could watch them, and tried to again convince her to go to the docotors...but she said no and got off of the phone... I then got ahold of my dad, who is a paramedic, to see if he would go down to check her out ( listen to her breathing and see if it was something serious) ... he said he would so I called her back , but she refused and said that she didnt want him to come down...
later that night i got on facebook and seen where she posted from her phone that she was in the ER .. and i asked if she found out what was wrong or anything ( in a comment) .. and she wrote back " why do you ask like you care, you couldnt watch the boys earlier when i was sick, why does it matter now" ... i was completely shocked that she would say that.... I mean was I really that awful to not watch the kids ? I had offered to watch them days before when i wasnt sick so she could go to the doctors and she refused then...
Asked by Anonymous at 9:51 PM on Jun. 21, 2011 in Relationships
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