my mom lives 5 hours away, she has been married to my dad for 33 years. she has been abused in everyway possible. he is a sociopath and the biggest narcissitic I have ever seen in my life. i have no contact with him. well she has been watching him for a month and he is calling and writing love letters to one of his therapy doctors. he calls her on her cell phone at night . my mom finally said enough(this is from someone who has been beat down her whole life) and came up here to live with me. the problem is---he is not backing down. she told him she wanted a divorce and he is acting psychotically. he calls twice a minute(yues its possible) all day everyday until she turns her phone off. he calls and says people will get hurt if she goes through with it and "blood will be shed" . also last night he called and said that he is going to go kill the 2 guys she dated in high school a year before they even met. he is psycho. i cannt take it anymore. this has been going on since monday. my life is turned completely upside down because my family is very normal but yet we are dealing with this. she wants to find a place of her own now but i do not feel like she is safe from him...i do think he would hurt possibly kill her. she has threatened restraing orders but he just says they are only for 14 days and if she does that then he will come after her. she is saving money for the divorce but i am freaking out 24/7 thinking he is going to break into my house and mess with my family. i cant take it ,Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:19 AM on Jun. 22, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 9:40 AM on Jun. 22, 2011
First get a restraining order for your family & her. Then go to her local police dept. & yours explain what he said including the death threats against her & her old BF's & ask what else can be done. Then get a Divorce Attorney & proceed with the divorce. She is entitled to 1/2 their assets including the home if it is under their names. Get started today. If he comes around her or you after the restraining order is in place, he will be arrested & hopefully a judge will see his erratic mental state & have him put in Psychiatric care as well. Maybe you can even have him committed for mental evaluation. Call an Attorney today. GL!
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