I am a step mom to a girl who recently had a baby with a scuzzball ... My husband and I have never liked the guy and we could always tell he just wasnt right... and I dont mean he is just like a geeky guy or a little odd but I mean, when you meet him you immediatly think of one of those guys who starts a cult or something... other than no job, not having the greatest hygene, and the scarey impression he gives off, he also has never treated step daughter very well, he argues and complains about everything she says.
She got pregnant shortly after they started dating, and now the baby is 3 weeks old... she lives with us and begs us to let him move in too but we say absolutely not... we have tried to talk to her about why she is with him, and if she really plans a future with him and she says that she does.... so we say ok, but that doesnt change the fact that he will not live here with us.
AND now we know without a doubt he will never be aloud in our home period. We came across the fact that he is on the sex offenders site for sexual battery and gross sexual impossition of a minor under the age of 13 ....
My husband and I have 3 other daughters all under the age of 13 ... there is no way in HELL he will come around any of them... and now we are worried for our new born grandaughter ...
We cannot make her understand that he is a bad guy and she needs to keep him away from the baby, she even sticks up for him and tried to explain what happened... ( what he told her after we found out and told her about it ) was that a girl who was *** 11 years old *** lied and said she was 18 ....... yeah freaking right, what 11 year old girl would convince a 23 year old man that she is 18 years old, and even if that is true... what did this little girl do, tell him she was 18, have sex with him, then beat herself up and go to the cops and say that he beat her.... yeah i am sure it is all the 11 year old girls fault.....
We are to the point to where we feel we need to tell step daughter that if she doesnt do something about him then we will find out what we can legally do to protect the baby....
step daughter just turned 18 years old, we want her and the baby to live here, in fact we know she has too because she has no job or any other form of support ... we honestly think she had a bad case of judgement when she got pregnant by him and now she is afriad he will try and take the baby from her or she just wants them to have a family...
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