I think you ought to talk does he know you have had a hysterectomy??? If he cares about you enough maybe you all can adopt........if he wants his own maybe he can give sperm and get the baby that way but if he just wants his own child and be with someone that can give that to him, why wait and the hurt be even more, I would leave now
I didn't have a choice to have a hysterectomy. I do not have any kids and could not ever have. I was experiencing a lot of pain and went for a few years like this then had to make a choice. I love this guy and if I could have kids it would be a no brainer. But I can't so I'm in a situation where I know I'll probably get really hurt. Couple that with we work together and it's a touchy situation.
at 8:39 PM on Jun. 22, 2011
and he knows my situation and has said he needs his own child.
at 8:40 PM on Jun. 22, 2011
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