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is it stalkerish to make sure if i still have plans going on with someone
he confused me and said he was really busy and named his schedule until sunday
then he tells me hey saturday we can go to a restaurant
and so i said okay.
he told me this tuesday.................

my question is, how can i ask if we still have plans in a not stalkerish way
if i should even ask at all?

HELP i haven't dated for a while!

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:21 PM on Jun. 22, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (5)
  • I would say, on Friday just say, hey are we still on for tomorrow? What time, where, etc. That is not stalkerish, just finding out details.

    Answer by ILoveCade at 10:23 PM on Jun. 22, 2011

  • ^^^ I agree, just casually ask if you still have plans.

    Answer by AF4life at 10:25 PM on Jun. 22, 2011

  • Nope, not stalkerish at all - if you do go out on Sat have a great time!

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 11:33 PM on Jun. 22, 2011

  • As long as you aren't checking everyday I think you should be fine and not come off as a stalker

    Answer by DianeMary at 4:28 AM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I would, like others said, just send him a quick text/email/call him or whatever and say, "hey, just wondering if we're still getting together tomorrow? If so, where at and when?"

    Now, if you post it on his FB wall a thousand times, or text him fifty times...that might be stalkerish. :)

    Answer by wendythewriter at 7:58 AM on Jun. 23, 2011

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