I don't get it. How is watching something on tv cheating? If you want to be scared, you watch a horror flick, if you want to laugh, you watch a comedy. If someone is horny they might watch a porn movie. Isn't it a little egotistical of us to think that our partners might not be turned on by something other than us? I wasn't in the mood for sex after I had my kids for at least a couple of months. I had no problem with my husband taking care of himself and using some visual aid. lol For some reason, there is this misconception that a guy that watches porn is going to cheat. Why? It seems to me that a guy that is prohibited from looking at anything but his wife would be more likely to stray. If the guy is watching porn 24/7 he has a problem, but once in a while wouldn't bother me. Watching a movie and touching himself. Exactly who is he cheating with, his hand?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:56 PM on Dec. 13, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by oliviasmomma09 at 3:01 PM on Dec. 13, 2008
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:03 PM on Dec. 13, 2008
It is cheating if it becomes an obsession and affects the quality of your marital life.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:21 PM on Dec. 13, 2008
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Answer by oliviasmomma09 at 3:55 PM on Dec. 13, 2008
I've never had a problem with porn. I think if it takes over your relationship it's something different than cheating. Not that it isn't a problem, but I don't feel it's cheating, unless he's seeking out someone other than himself to satisfy. My DH and I watch it together sometimes.
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 4:02 PM on Dec. 13, 2008
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