I am a woman in my 40's that's been dating a man who is in his 50's for the past 3 1/2 years. Throughout the time that I have been dating him, I have always dealt with a trust issue, myself. I will not lie and say that we have not had our problems because we have. Yet, he has never really given me a reason not to trust him. But, i love this man more than I have ever loved any man, ever!.......And i want to make this work....So, i need some solid advice!
How do i get past this trust issue?....I have read books and tried to do the things it said to do, in the book. But, to no avail!.....
I am just asking this simple question...........HOW DO I PROGRAM MY BRAIN TO STOP thinking this way?....(sorry for the caps, just need to get my point across).....I don't want to know HOW to trust...I want to know, what ACTIONS do i need to take, in order to save my relationship and start trusting in what he's telling me, or if he's going to hurt me, Or if he's lying to me?......I don't want to lose him!
Thanks in advance!
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