A friend of ours is about to go through an ugly divorce. His wife is the biggest bitch I have ever met, she was always putting him down and telling him he needed to be more like my DH! They have been separated since feb. she kept telling him she wanted to work on it but now she is living with a single guy (pretty sure she is having an affair, but can't prove it) we are all in the AF and if she is having one and it can be proven she won't get a cent of his money and she could actually get prosecuted bc it violates the UCMJ. Well on top of that her car is in his name (the loan and everything) well she went and traded it in for an even more expensive car without his knowledge. IS THIS EVEN LEGAL? Her name is not on the loan, how can she increase it without him signing anything??? This has basically f***ed his credit bc he is now expected to make $500 payments on this car on top of his truck. He gets the bills, not her. She also put a restraining order against him, even though if anyone was abusive it was her! When she moved out she took things that were left to him in his Grandfather's will (died in Jan.) and her "friend" trashed their house (which they had just signed a year lease for in oct.), he had to pay to fix all the damage done. I am just wondering if anyone can give me any resources that can help him...the AF doesn't seem to be doing much for him. He used to be such a happy guy but now he is on anti-depressants and he hates his life, all because of this bitch! We are sure she is cheating because even before she actually left him she was hitting on other men (my DH to be exact!) She didn't see any problem in flirting with a married man who also just happens to be one of her hubby's really good friends. She would even tell her hubby to his face that he wasn't as attractive as my DH and that my DH was sooo much better than him! She is ruining his life and we can't seem to do anything to help him!! Please if you have any ideas of how to help him, let me know. Right now I would love nothing more to punch her in the face, but I could get in a lot of trouble for that, and I am not sure she is worth that.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:17 AM on Jun. 23, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Ati_13 at 9:24 AM on Jun. 23, 2011
Answer by emmyandlisa at 9:29 AM on Jun. 23, 2011
Answer by Ati_13 at 9:51 AM on Jun. 23, 2011
Answer by attap5 at 10:30 AM on Jun. 23, 2011