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Is this weird to you?

My 3 yo niece takes showers with her 19 yo mom, which i find fine, but my niece also takes showers with her 19 yo stepmom. -became stepmom one yr ago. Is this normal? or someting my nieces mom should be concerned about? Me and my nieces mom feel like this is a little weird, what are your thoughts on it?

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sillymumof2

Asked by sillymumof2 at 1:35 PM on Jun. 23, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • my 3 children used to take showers with me and my husband all the time !! its just easier to get them clean and saves time and money !!! its also a great way to bond !!! untill they get to old :)
    mommyx3me

    Answer by mommyx3me at 1:41 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't see it as being weird.
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 1:42 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I wouldn't want my girls taking a shower with my ex's gf.. hell no.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:45 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • No not really something I find weird. Now if it was with her dad or stepdad I would find that odd.
    pookiekins34

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 1:45 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Showering w/parents is fine...showering w/an adult OTHER than a parent = ODD!

    I live w/my parents and my youngest has lived w/them since day 1 of her life (she's 15 months old). No way would it be cool if she bathed or showered my my mother OR father. Same w/my 4 year old.
    cheekycherub

    Answer by cheekycherub at 1:58 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • yes its weird, if i were the mom i would say something to the dad.
    esmith1984

    Answer by esmith1984 at 1:59 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Either way is wierd. She is three years old, nod a baby anymore. She should be taking supervised baths.
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 2:23 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't think it's weird.
    reaandiziesmama

    Answer by reaandiziesmama at 3:30 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • thank you every one!
    sillymumof2

    Comment by sillymumof2 (original poster) at 3:43 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't think it's weird, but I know people who would be uncomfortable with it.....I also let my kids run around the house naked when they were toddlers and other people thought that was wrong.....
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 3:46 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

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