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Is this weird to you?

My 3 yo niece takes showers with her 19 yo mom, which i find fine, but my niece also takes showers with her 19 yo stepmom. -became stepmom one yr ago. Is this normal? or someting my nieces mom should be concerned about? Me and my nieces mom feel like this is a little weird, what are your thoughts on it?

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Asked by sillymumof2 at 1:35 PM on Jun. 23, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • my 3 children used to take showers with me and my husband all the time !! its just easier to get them clean and saves time and money !!! its also a great way to bond !!! untill they get to old :)

    Answer by mommyx3me at 1:41 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't see it as being weird.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 1:42 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I wouldn't want my girls taking a shower with my ex's gf.. hell no.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:45 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • No not really something I find weird. Now if it was with her dad or stepdad I would find that odd.

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 1:45 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Showering w/parents is fine...showering w/an adult OTHER than a parent = ODD!

    I live w/my parents and my youngest has lived w/them since day 1 of her life (she's 15 months old). No way would it be cool if she bathed or showered my my mother OR father. Same w/my 4 year old.

    Answer by cheekycherub at 1:58 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • yes its weird, if i were the mom i would say something to the dad.

    Answer by esmith1984 at 1:59 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Either way is wierd. She is three years old, nod a baby anymore. She should be taking supervised baths.

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 2:23 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't think it's weird.

    Answer by reaandiziesmama at 3:30 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • thank you every one!

    Comment by sillymumof2 (original poster) at 3:43 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I don't think it's weird, but I know people who would be uncomfortable with it.....I also let my kids run around the house naked when they were toddlers and other people thought that was wrong.....

    Answer by Anna92464 at 3:46 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

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