I have made another question about my daughter in law and a problem I was having with her ( i think this was around january) , we moved past that problem, and I have been trying my darndest to get along with her.
Some background is, her and my son started dating last year, she had already been married twice and already had 2 sons ( who are now 2 and 3 years old) and since their fathers have both signed their rights over, my son stepped up as daddy, they got married and just recently had a little girl together.
The boys I am very close to, they are my grandsons, my son is also there daddy - he does everything for them and he HONESTLY spends more time with them than she does. He also goes to work 12 hours a day, comes home and cleans and makes supper ( and she wont deny that he does this ) ...
Now the problems I have had with her before is that she kept telling me that when the baby came she didnt want anyone to treat the baby differently than the boys, I tried to tell her that everyone loves the boys but since she is a newborn and the first girl in the family she has to expect that alot of family memebers will be excited to see her. This led to her keeping me from the baby, but still dropping the boys off everyday when my son went to work... It got to the point to where i would invite them all over for dinner, her, my son and the boys would show up but she had gotten a babysitter for the baby , and she said she was doing this all because " it isnt fair to the boys"... she is so worried about things being unfair to the boys that she is being unfair to the baby
Also, she just makes a point of family being unfair to the boys, when in fact she is a stay at home mom to the baby -- she sends the boys to my house or to day care , how is that being fair?
Well now i have been asked if i could ( finally) watch the baby... of course I said yes but then I found out it will be for 10 days straight ! ..... They are going on a FAMILY vacation but dont want to take the baby because " it is not fair to the boys" .... how in the world is that fair ???
Asked by Anonymous at 1:36 PM on Jun. 23, 2011 in Relationships
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