Last night my daughter wet the bed for the 4th time this week. She is 3 and a half. My husband yelled at her told me he was going to whoop her the next time it happens(we do not spank at all). She sleeps with us part of the night especially if she gets cold by herself. If she is warm she stays in her bed. Our blanket was soaked and we only had one other blanket and he lied down on the floor with it. I walked in after putting my daughter to sleep in her room and I got upset since I am 6 months pregnant and had no blanket. I made a comment stating since I need a blanket and dont have one I might as well have a party and turn the tv on staying up all night. He jumped up and put his hands on my throat and starting yelling at me at how pissed off I have been making him. All I could do is cry. I told him I want him to leave and he didnt (he has told me a couple times he wants me to pack my stuff and leave). Then we went to sleep because I hate arguing. During the night he ended up holding my belly and in the morning he kissed me goodbye before he left for work ( I just sat there with no feelings). I don't want to leave my husband especially since I am 6 months pregnant. What am I going to do? Should I wait untill he hits me? Has anyone ever been through this? I love him and just writing this is making me cry. Im so depressed. All the bills are in my name and most of our debt is in my name. He barely makes ends meet running his own business and he smokes in front of my daughter and I. I feel like he is controlling me and has no regard for my feelings. He doesnt do anything for me but keep bills paid. I do everything by myself at home and run all of the errands after he gets home from work. :sigh: I wish this decision was a lot easier to make. I've already made up my mind if he does something again I will leave but Im not sure if I should leave now.
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