He always told me I didn't need makeup so I didn't care if I wore it or not. But one day I thought I looked particularly awful and my clothes were comfortable but not cute and I said "Omg I can't go out like this." He says "You look fine." I said "How can you say that!" His response was "Well at least if you go out like that, I know no other guys will be hitting on you." How can he think like that?! I've spruced up since then and now he actually checks me out or says I look hot without me asking. I can't believe I let myself go to the point where he would think that! Reality check but he could have said something sooner! 11 yrs with him and nobody needs to be hitting on me but I sure as hell want him to be proud to be seen with me! How would you feel?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:53 PM on Jun. 23, 2011 in Beauty & Style
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Answer by dustbunny at 4:08 PM on Jun. 23, 2011
To be honest, I'm not sure how I would feel if my husband said that to me. I think that I would probably feel pretty bad, and feel a little like "wow, have I really let myself go to that point". I'm one of those who does my hair, makeup and dresses every day (how it's all done does depend on what I'm doing that day, however it is done in some shape or form). Even if I'm just sitting at home doing nothing, I put myself together. I have never done this for my husband though, I have always done it it for "Me". I'm very selfish in that regards, I do those things for me because I like the way I look, I like the way it makes me see and feel about myself. My husband's reactions and how he views me due to it is just icing on the cake really.
Answer by pixie_trix at 4:50 PM on Jun. 23, 2011
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