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Do you have......

A Male doctor?

Would you rather have male or female? for those who have male does your husband agree with your decision? and for those who dont why?

I dont agree with having a male doctor now that im married I dont feel comfortable you?

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Asked by KColeman90 at 10:07 PM on Jun. 23, 2011 in Health

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  • I have a female family dr. but a male obgyn. I love him and wouldn't go to anyone else. I'm more wierded out by a female gynocologist for some reason. lol

    Answer by Trinity001 at 10:12 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • i had a male dr (internal medicine) an a female obgyn.. i think for ob's i feel more comfy with a female since you know they have the same parts! haha but for a general dr.. i think a male is fine, hubby didnt really have a say since the internal medicine dr was around way before he(hubby) was. but for the obgyn we both picked the dr an we both just happen to like the female

    Answer by akalei at 10:15 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I have a male gyno. If I were still married, it would not be DH's choice to make.

    The flip side of not being comfortable after marriage - does that mean I should be because I'm single? There's no logic to that.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 10:16 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Where I go I see Nurse Practitioners and they are all women. 


    Answer by luvmygrlz at 10:21 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I have female doctors who are very good and with whom i am very comfortable . I would never go back to male doctors .

    Answer by janet116 at 10:35 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • Yes I have a male Dr and I like him way better than any of the females I have had, he is a good guy and always listens to my worries & concerns..

    Answer by momto4girzls at 10:47 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I've had good and bad from both genders.....and my husband has no say in who I see for a doctor.


    Answer by banana-bear at 10:50 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I have no problem with male doctors and my husband has no problem with me going to a male doctor.  I don't have a problem with him going to a female doctor either.  Our health is our primary concern not a doctor's gender.


    Answer by beeky at 11:21 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I have a male doctor, he has been my doc since I was a little kid. My partner has no problem with it. And also if I ever feel the need, I can make an appt with one of my doctors female collegues

    Answer by Misery_Stitches at 11:27 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

  • I forgot to answer half the question lol. My dh has no say, and it's never been brought up, about me having a male dr. That person is a professional so i don't see where anyone would have a problem. My gynocologist is actually a hottie lol. But it's more of a joke between us, if your dh can't trust you at the dr. then there are bigger problems lol I will say this thought, my dad will not let a female dr. see him for anything other than general stuff. He had an anal fistula years ago (he's got Crohns Disease) and at the ER a female came in to examine him. He was respectful, but said he wouldn't let a female examine him down there. He's a preacher and very modest. I've never even seen him with his shirt off.

    Answer by Trinity001 at 11:40 PM on Jun. 23, 2011

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