I don't know the reasons but i do know that cafemom is suppose to be a place where moms can come for support and advice, not bashing from other people who don't know the situation or position a person is in. Every person is different. Who knows why a child may live with a grandparent, maybe there were financial problems, or maybe there was something else. We don't know until we are in the situation. I know i will do what ever it takes for my girls to have a happy healthy life, if that means one day i may have to give them to someone else i would. Not happily but willingly to keep them safe and secure. As of right now, i take care of my girls, but you never know what's going to happen. Good luck to you girlglow6, if you need anyone to talk too, i am always here.
at 5:50 PM on Jun. 24, 2011