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Husband messages women (co-workers, and old friends mostly) on Facebook, but deletes them all. Sneaky or not?

** I get all his messages to my email...I've never seen anything inappropriate.  It's all casual conversation.  That is why I can't figure out why he deletes it like he doesn't want me to know.  When I ask about it, he lies until I tell him that I've read the message.  I don't get it!**

***He uses the iphone instead of the computer, so keystrokes recorders wouldn't be much help***

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:58 AM on Jun. 25, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • thats sneaky alright

    Answer by diana398 at 12:00 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • if spuse is doing something that does not other to know about or would not want them to see or hear
    sneaky- darn right
    and maybe much more than sneaky

    red flag!

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:00 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • Totally hiding something!

    Answer by emmyandlisa at 12:01 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • horrid

    Answer by stace101 at 12:03 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • Way too sneaky! Time for a key stroke recorder!

    Answer by treynlisa at 12:09 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • Sneak

    Answer by pookiekins34 at 12:10 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • time for
    E blaster
    cost about 100 bucks
    well wroth it
    let him delete, browse in private all he wants

    get this prgram and see exactly what he has been doing on the computer

    also dectective wives club - group on cafemom, has good idea to "catch" him (and support for when you find out things that you never wanted to know-but needed to know)

    good luck!

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:14 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • Very sneaky!! If nothingnwas wrong, why would he feel the need to delete?

    Answer by Helen2004 at 12:17 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • Sneaky and he is hiding something.

    Answer by zoomomto3 at 12:19 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

  • What an asshat! Sneaky and dumb.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 1:54 PM on Jun. 25, 2011

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