My ex husband was an alcoholic and very abusive. He tried to kill my daughter and I and told me if I ruined his military career he would slit my throat. I moved my daughter and I 3000 miles away, having never worked and no college, actually got a good job with the state. My ex took me to court 3 times to reduce child support. He took me to court 2 times for custody and lost but I had to pay a crapload of attorney bills. My daughter had to go 3000 miles away in the summer to see him, and he abused her. I came into money and spent every dime to take away all visitation. My daughter is 14. The last time she saw him, he picked her up, took her to the mall, bought her a pair of $300 sunglasses, took her home, and left, yet again hurting her-this time emotionally. A few months ago he called and left me 3 voice messages threatening to kill us, and my husband. I finally busted his military ass and got him demoted. Now he is playing mind games with me. He wants me to download a program on my kid's computer called Skype and buy a webcam so he can talk to her whenever he wants. I am torn. I don't want my kid to get hurt. I am ok with them talking, only if she wants. He is telling me I don't have a choice, it is my fault they aren't communicating and I am keeping him from having a relationship with his kid. What do u think? Sorry so long!
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