So, the relationship between my mother and I is no good. I don't speak to her because shes mentally abusive and just flat out crazy.
My grandpa lives with her. I don't know the rest of my family allowed this, when I asked they said "It was just better to let her have her way, or else she'll blow up like she always does."
My mother thinks the world is against her when really, we're either trying to help her with her issues. I can't deal with her anymore, so I don't. But everyone else just gives in, and lets her have her way when she throws a hissy fit. Anyway...long story short I don't talk to her because when I lived with her, she was mentally and physically abusive, and when I left, she told everyone I was a drug addict, and I was violent, and all kinds of crazy things. She even threatened my friends trying to make me go back to living with her.
Anyway, my grandpa and uncle have the same name. I added my grandpa thinking it was my uncle, but turns out it was my grandpa. My grandpa doesn't know how to use a computer, and much less, he doesn't know how to create a facebook.
I've blocked my mother my facebook completely, and I KNOW shes going to be looking at my facebook and getting in my business again through my grandpa. The thing is, if I delete my grandpa...my mom will more than likely blow it WAY out of proportion, and my family will once again be afraid to talk to me, because when I left her house, most of my family stopped talking to me because if they did, my mom would blow up on them...so now I'm thinking...Oh great, I'm either stuck with her looking in my business or having no one talk to me or invite me to family functions because of her.
I'm pregnant and due in 2 weeks. I want her to have little to nothing to do with my son...He will not be seeing her, I will not let her hold him, I will not let her touch him, or talk to him (thats how bad she is).
Should I just delete my grandpa, or should I just not post anything about my child on facebook? (I.E. posts about going into labor, pictures, things like that)
I'm afraid now that if I post about me going into labor she'll show up at the hospital, which is something I really do not want to happen...at all.
I feel like I'm already starting to go into labor...mild cramping, blood pressure increased a little bit more than usual..stuff like that.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Jun. 25, 2011 in Relationships
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