and tried to kiss you. What would you do? I told hubby and he just laughed his head off and told me he'd have liked to have seen it and thinks I should have carried on with it. I don't see how he could be so cavalier about it, we've been friends for 14 years and she's wonderful but just before this told me she was in love with me and always had been but that she wanted nothing from it. I honestly don't know what to do. (she was drunk when she tried to kiss me) Husband is being no help, so advice ladies!
Asked by Anonymous at 6:27 AM on Dec. 14, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by tropicalmama at 10:06 AM on Dec. 14, 2008
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 7:22 AM on Dec. 14, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 10:31 AM on Dec. 14, 2008
Honestly, I think it would affect me if my BFF told me she was in love with me. My BFF was bi (she passed several years ago). But we were super close, like a sister and if she had told me this I would have been uncomfortable. But you know, she's probably waking up this morning and regretting her actions. People really do say and do things they normally wouldn't when they drink, maybe you can move past this and still be friends. I know that if it had happened to me I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend, it would take a while to adjust! As for your DH, I think he's being a typical male. Maybe talk to her and make boundaries-no kissing and that you truly view her as just a friend. GL
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 10:49 AM on Dec. 14, 2008