i had my son a year ago from my so called high school sweetheart. and he has done nothing to prove he is a reliable father or provider for my son.
we met about 8 years ago and its as if its the same when we were in high school. he wants to still run the streets hang out with friends and run from responsible.
i went thru alot with him forgave him for cheating betraying me and much more...
at one point he was verbally and mentally abusing me by falsely excusing me of cheating with other men.
when i got pregnant. he promised me the world. but obviously that didnt happen. luckily i still continued to work while i was pregnant and continued to go to college.... he helped me with nothing as far as preparing for the baby.
he always had an excuse.
now my son is a year old. and i am a college graduate. working a job. and trying to begin my masters in a few months. i have been taking care of my son myself so far. with little to no help from his dad.
he gives what he wants when he wants. its really sad. he doesn't care. he blames me for everything. i don't understand him. he complains about buying diapers and so on. he did not buy our son a gift for xmas or his 1st birthday :(
he says i think i am better than him because i am a college grad with a job..... with everything i accomplish he finds a way to rub it in my face and try to make me feel bad.....
i ask him for something for our son. and supposedly he doesnt have it. but he has new shoes new clothes SMH.
basically i have to abide by his rules and regulations. and be controlled by him to supposedly support our son SMH.
it hurts that he does me like this. but most of all our son.... but i feel its fine because one day god will deal with him....
i am just going to work and support my son myself....
i decided to change my number.... because whenever he calls he starts an argument. he lies.... and most of all he makes threats SMH...
and he doesnt even respond to the child support notices......
but i feel GOD will deal with him one day.. because he is living a fast life that only lands you in two places the graveyard or jail....
i know it will be a challenge but i think i can do this.... i have my own.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:14 PM on Jun. 26, 2011 in Relationships
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