I have a 9 year old little boy , because of problems his dad and i had, he has lived with his dad. i would see him when i could but I guess that wasn't good enough , all my ex could concentrate on was what I wasnt doing, not what I was.
I went to see him a few weeks ago and it broke my heart, he has been calling my exs wife mommy, do you know how much that hurts to hear your child call someone else mommy ?
They are brainwashing him or something, he didnt even want anything to do with me, i tried to hug and kiss him goodbye and he just tried to push me away...
This makes me so upset and makes me so angry and my ex and the woman he is just letting call herself mommy to MY child .
I was wondering on what the steps are to try and get custody of him, i want him to live with his REAL MOM... I do not have alot of money, and one of my family memebrs said it would be almost impossible for me to get him since his dad has had him all of this time and since i owe child support , does that really count against me? I cant pay the child support right now, can they not let me have him if I owe it ?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:29 AM on Jun. 27, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Yes not paying child support counts against you. Children need to be supported financially, even if he lived with you you'd need to find a way to support him. See if you can get into family counseling.
The best advice is just to be there for your son and to love him. He will see through other people's manipulations in time. He needs your emotional and finanicial support on a consistant daily baises. Email, write, call and see him.
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