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Sex with hubby after a fight?

Why do guys think after a fight we want to have sex with them? I don't get it! My hubby and I got in a fight then he was like "let's do it." I just have no interest after he pisses me off like that.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:12 AM on Jun. 27, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Women have sex because they feel close. Men feel close because they have sex. See the problem?
    Ms.Gwen

    Answer by Ms.Gwen at 11:18 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • LOL AMEN!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:16 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • I have no idea....I think it's because their brains don't work like ours. After a fight my hubby knows not to even attempt to try touching me sexually. He knows that he will be backhanded if he does.
    AF4life

    Answer by AF4life at 11:14 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • Lol, funny! Yeah my hubby honestly doesn't get it.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:17 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • the same reason that when we are super upset and crying they think as soon as the tears stop it's go time.. apparently two heads AREN'T better than one.. Sex isn't a fix all..
    zoejains_momma

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 11:17 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • Mine is not like that thank goodness but I was with a guy who was once. They think it's a good way to make up but it's not like that for me.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • We do sometimes, gets our blood going and next thing I know...BAM,LOL.
    MrsLLove

    Answer by MrsLLove at 11:18 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • I guess it depends, I've done it. If I'm still angry about it then no.
    blessmeplease

    Answer by blessmeplease at 11:28 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • Ms. Gwen, good insight!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:29 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

  • I've had sex after a heated argument...because he just looks so sexy when he's mad LOL. He never starts fight just to get sex out of it though and we have only had sex after an argument a couple times. If my husband and I were mad and he just randomly through in "hey...lets go", I'd probably go for it! I'm not one to hold a grudge or anything though. You only live once, why waste it staying pissed off? Oh, my husband is also in the military and gone a lot so any chance to be intimate is likely to happen.
    CassiRae3

    Answer by CassiRae3 at 11:58 AM on Jun. 27, 2011

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