I keep hearing and seeing posts and answers all over the place where people claim to be 'non judgemental'. You know, these people just agree to agree with the idea that people are who and what they are and you cannot change them so don't judge them at all for anything. Let them be completely themselves, .however, in the very next answer I will see that same person judging someone else(looking down their nose at or trying to make them feel guilty) for how much they spent on a new car or article of clothing or purse or whatever. I mean, if another person wants to spend alot of money on an expensive luxury car and just because you believe in driving a tin can with wheels...who are you to still come off judging in that sense either? Remember, just let everyone be their own person no matter if that is their sexual preference, the way they dress or tattoo their body from head to toe or their choice of car for their family....don't be a hypocrit!
If a person wants to buy an un-eco friendly gas guzzling vehicle for luxury or a $500 pair of shoes or a $100 bathing suit, what makes you think it's your job to tell them how you could have done just as well with a $10 bathing suit? or a Ford Fiesta instead? That's you being judgemental. So watch your p's & q's if you claim to be someone who never judges others!! Remember, big spenders and people you don't agree with also get to" just be themselves" too!
Some of you seem to think that being non-judgemental only applies in cases where it concerns some tree-hugging minimalist...anyone else out there is open for you to judge and bash and that's just not so. Everyone ,and I mean everyone is entitled to be themselves without judgement from others according to non-judgemental people. So don't judge anyone for anything! Even in your opinions...don't judge someone else's husband because they are lazy or a drunk either. If you really believe in not being a judgemental person then really follow through on that. Watch yourself. Otherwise, you're no different than anyone else even though you claim to be.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:12 PM on Jun. 27, 2011 in Relationships
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