I heard on Dr. Phil a while ago that the reason women get into so many angry jealous wars (on facebook, myspace, in court etc) is because they have to have someone to compare themselves to, and they have to constantly prove their the "better" one. So, when a woman and her SO's ex cant get along or when a BM and SM are at each others throats constantly, its not about the man...or even the kids...its about being better than the other. And, thats why women make threats with court so quickly...they feel if a judge sides with them, they MUST be the better woman. He also said men are not programed this way and thats why most new DH and exH, and Dads and Stepdads dont get into wars like the moms do. Of course this was generally speaking...and not true for all cases. Do you ladies agree?? Do you have "wars" with your Dh's ex...or your ex's new woman?? If so, do you think this is why....we're "programed" to have to be the better person??
Answer by Heathercurlz at 1:35 PM on Jun. 27, 2011
Answer by samurai_chica at 2:04 PM on Jun. 27, 2011
Answer by older at 1:33 PM on Jun. 27, 2011