my oldest dd is ten , she will do some chores but sometimes complains or sometimes refuses, my 8 yearold dd cries says i am tired,or just plain out hides. now my oldest has been diagnosed with aspergers syndrome , my youngest daughter needs to see a neurologist for some things going on with her, her coordination is bad. but she is always spilling foods , liquids then walking off not cleaning or attempting to clean it up. my older daughter will try to clean up her own spills. i have taken prilvileges away etc nothing is working any ideas to get more cooperation for chores. my older daughter wants to help with laundry and cooking with me. but the younger one has n motivation to be honest at times she seems like a robot showing very little or no emotions. she only hugs if she sees her sister do it and we hug and kiss them all the time. she was not even excited when she made high A honor roll all year.
Answer by gemgem at 7:44 AM on Jun. 28, 2011