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How Do you Tell A parent They Are Wrong In What they are doing when your just the Fathers Girlfriend

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dmasera

Asked by dmasera at 8:31 AM on Jun. 28, 2011 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • Do you live there or spend alot of time there? You just tell them. if you see this stuff happening and get that uneasy feeling then report it
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:36 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • Depends on what it is. It very well could be NONE of your business
    itsmesteph11

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 8:39 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • hold on....you're the fathers girlfriend...so, his kids are bad parents? Or his ex wife is a bad mother? Which is it?

    either way...you don't...it's none of your business.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 8:40 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • You probably don't. But I would need more info.
    Candi1024

    Answer by Candi1024 at 8:40 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • In the situation you are talking about. You mention ONCE how you feel about the ex and mother of the child sleeping naked with her 6 yr old son. Once, because you are just a girlfriend. After that, the father needs to be the one that deals with or doesn't deal with it. They could be more open about nudity.
    twinsplus2more

    Answer by twinsplus2more at 8:44 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • You don't.
    KTMOM

    Answer by KTMOM at 12:56 PM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • Very simple--you don't!
    MamaMia9999

    Answer by MamaMia9999 at 12:00 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • You have your own mind which produces your own thoughts and opinions right? Its important that you talk to your B/F if something is bothering you. If you don't then how the hell are you suppose to have a open relationship that is built on communication and trust. I feel its immature to keep strong feelings inside. Most of us have been taught to express ourselves. With that you also must be ready for the consequences. Your boyfriend might not like what he hears. Then you have a disagreement on your hands. You cant have a healthy relationship with out tough conversations.

    Ihatelaundry

    Answer by Ihatelaundry at 5:14 PM on Jul. 4, 2011

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