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Why do I always feel or always come to the best solution for everything is to run away or to just be alone?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:56 AM on Jun. 28, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I do the same thing.

    Answer by Y.B.normal at 10:57 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • because you have anxiety like I do and need your own "chill out" time to sort through it all

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 10:58 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • Because it's the easy way out and requires no hard work to make it work.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 11:07 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • I agree -- it's the easy way which requires no effort. I do the same thing!

    Answer by BaileysMom476 at 11:20 AM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • Nothing wrong with that if it works. It works for me.

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:51 PM on Jun. 28, 2011

  • I too do this sometimes. There is nothing wrong with this coping strategy as long as you don't completely shut out everyone for long periods of time. Time alone with our thoughts for too long can sometimes be dangerous. That is why we have friendships. So, keep spending time gathering your thoughts or meditating, praying, or whatever you need just don't isolate yourself for too long that is not healthy.

    Answer by Tashayj at 1:21 PM on Jun. 28, 2011

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