Both godparents are my SO's best friends. They are not a couple or anything, and not mutual friends of each other. The godfather was around alot when I was pregnant and the first couple months baby was born. When he got involved with an old girlfriend (they are now newly married) he stopped being around completely. He is only around for her bday, she is going on 3 this November. He doesn't help with the bday or involved in any thing, just shows up, might I add late and sits there with his wife. Thu talk to no one and sit there like a bump on a log.
The god mother does practically the same thing except for the birthday she calls a week before, gives a hundred and one promises and doesn't go thru with anything except for buy groceries that I need to cook for the bday party. I appreciate everything they have done in the past, and the very very little they do now but I am a little annoyed that they have nothing to do with her. Every time I do talk to them they say they miss her etc but nothing is stopping them from seeing her but them. They have admitted, on their own I didn't ask them to, that they haven't been very good godparents and feel bad but like I sad nothing is stopping them from being here. Advice anyone?? Thanks
Answer by MommaClark3 at 2:08 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
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