it was a tuesday, i was visiting my gran and i just had a really strong feeling she was going to die that night and i should stay there. i told myself i was just being stupid, i phoned her that night between 8 and 8:30, she was fine.
i phoned the next morning and the police answered the phone.... my gran had died and i just cant get over it. i should have stayed and mabey she would still be alive.
i miss her so much
Asked by Anonymous at 7:33 PM on Jun. 28, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by WeLuvOurNUGGET at 7:35 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
Answer by zoomomto3 at 7:36 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
Answer by fallnangel93 at 7:37 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
Answer by Ashoonik at 7:39 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
It is not your fault that she died. Even if you had of been there, chances are it is something that you could not have prevented. I do know how you feel though. When my grandmother died, the night before she had been put in the hospital for fluid on her heart. She had been in the hospital several times for the same thing and they were always able to drain the fluid and she would be out the next day. My mom asked me if I wanted to go to the hospital and since I was waiting on a phone call from my husband to let me know when to pick him up at the airport (he was coming home from Iraq), I told my mom that I would visit her the next day. I didn't get that next day and I have carried that around with me for the past 6 years. I am sorry for your loss, but please don't make the same mistake that I did and blame yourself.
Answer by JeremysMom at 7:40 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:41 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
I am So Sorry about your Gran.. it is weird how we feel things sometimes but, in no way was it your fault- i'm sure your Gran wouldn't want you to blame yourself; she was happy that you were there visiting with her..
Answer by daisyb at 7:43 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
I'm so sorry, it's really not your fault. Your Grandmother loved you and she wouldn't want you to be placing unnecessary guilt on yourself. Remember the good memories you had of her.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 7:43 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
it wasn't your fault just because you had a feeling .... intuition that it was going to happen you can blame yourself for fate....
Answer by traren at 7:45 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
Answer by MommaClark3 at 7:46 PM on Jun. 28, 2011
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