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We agreed on 2 kids... But I want One more...

my dd is almost 2 and I honestly want another baby with in the next 3-4 years..
Dh said NO WAY.... hmm.... not fair.. I raise them! lol
anyway am I wrong for feeling angry with him/?

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Dork4Fish

Asked by Dork4Fish at 12:03 AM on Jun. 29, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Give it sometime and bring it up again.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:04 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • i agree with mommy_of_two388 just wait a little bit and bring it up again
    mamawilbur

    Answer by mamawilbur at 12:06 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • You agreed to two so you would be wrong for being angry at him. You should only want to have more if he is on board anyway. So be patient maybe he will change his mind or if not you can be happy with the two you already have.
    SylviaNCali

    Answer by SylviaNCali at 12:18 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • I would be careful. My husband only wanted two. He already had one when I met him. We had a son after we were together a year. I wanted a girl. I spent two years trying to get prego. He recently stated I never listened to him when he said he did not want another baby. He loves our daughter, but I think he still resents me for it.
    kansasmom1978

    Answer by kansasmom1978 at 12:21 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • Give it some time sweets, he will come around.
    Helen2004

    Answer by Helen2004 at 12:35 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • Have you asked him his reason on not wanting more?
    1sexymother

    Answer by 1sexymother at 12:57 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • Just wait. We have 2 and agreed to have one more in 3 to 4 years. I think after that I would not mind another child but I don't know about my hubby. I wont bring it up for a good 6 years!
    momavanessa

    Answer by momavanessa at 3:43 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • You agreed, right? Then you're completely, totally and absolutely wrong to even bring the subject up.

    The lesson here is, don't agree to things you aren't completely sure about.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:48 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • Anonymous an hour ago, you're being a Bitch!


    Why so rude?

    Dork4Fish

    Comment by Dork4Fish (original poster) at 10:17 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

  • lol good luck my uncle and his girlfriend agreed on 2 was good but they wanted another boy but they end up with 2 girls and there twins
    taratennant60

    Answer by taratennant60 at 10:55 AM on Jun. 29, 2011

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