ok so Idont know how this will come out but i love my husband SO much i just wish I could help him....Ill start off by tellin you guys his background....He lived with his mom and real dad for about 6 years with his other two brothers one younger and one older...his dad and mom both beat him then his mom lefted her first husband for a rich guy that treated them like crap their mom and this guy would beat them.....then she had that guys kids (2) they are treated like angels the boys were outcast made to do housework he didnt have any freedom he started in his teens to have a porn addiction...then a couple years later he met me he was nice and still is on occasion....we had problems for years but worked through them and are doing great its just i noticed later his porn consists of older women....Im 21 hes 25.....I dont understand that i thought at first maybe he is into that or it could be mom issues....im not saying that b/c of me being hurt from the porn though i dont like it I have tried to talk to him but he doesnt want to we have been together for 6 years and he just doesnt talk about his feelings im not mad at him i just wanna know if i can help him through any of this....I dont wanna bring up his past b/c it hurts him he hates talking bad about his dad but couldnt care about talking bad about his mom.....idk...I just want to understand since he wont tell me can someone make anything of this.....
Asked by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Jun. 29, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by gdiamante at 2:07 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
So you have been in a relationship with him sense you where 15? His porn addiction is like any other addiction, his problem not yours. He needs help by professionals. He has to want to stop.
Answer by louise2 at 1:49 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
Answer by marla at 1:38 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
Answer by sugamama3 at 1:42 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
Answer by kylie_bob at 1:47 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
Answer by MeandMyBabes at 2:07 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
Answer by louise2 at 2:09 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
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