if SO or boyfriend not husband called you names? i got upset about a comment he said about a friend of ours so he called me insecure. SO said "i realized katherine's a silverfish when i was hiking with her, but i have you." first of all she's a WHAT!? (a fish, as in something you CATCH?) second, he went hiking with her without telling me while i was out of town!? katherine and i are new friends and she called me to come rescue him. he almost had a heat stroke. he was in trouble and i had to drive an hour to get him.
wouldn't any girl would feel this way for what he says, such as "she's just so great?" and "she's just like you when i first met you". it seems he does this on purpose to see the worst of me come out. i am civil, concerned but hurt and confused.
i took it as, he think she's such a great catch. why would i want to know that? i tell him keep those thougts to yourself! why would a FIANCE say that...or even think if for that matter. yes, he proposed to me a year and a half ago, been together 4 years.
i don't doubt his love, but feel unsafe, scared. he's cheated on previos girlfriends and this is why im so unsure!
supposedly silverfish means "just another girl" when i asked him. but if he meant she was "just another girl" it wouldn't come out like it did, it wouldn't be substantial enough for him to even make a comment about it. all 3 of us are friends, i like her she's cool..but why emphasize his liking to her so often and so much. it makes me sad. im a bad ass chic, im ahead in life. he's living with ME and he knows he has it good.
unfortuntately tho we are rocky so stuff like this happens sometimes. last night i went out with a friend and for once i was seriously on the verge of a break up. not sure of this guy all the sudden because of this one comment. we've been together 4 years, but im lacking hope because i don't expect him to change one bit.
"just because you love someone doesn't mean they're right for you!" im on the fence! not sure what moves to make. suggestions?Answer Question
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