If you had an adult with children, someone you are close to, a family member and she does something to hurt YOUR family (husband, kids, you) say...put your SO/husband in jail..that family member's children lived with you and said things that were not necessarily true.
One of the kids comes back now, 3 years later and reaches out to you, wants a relationship with you, can you forgive and forget? Mind you this is your SO's family but you were very close to the children.
I am in this situation, it's hard for me. I loved my sister in law and her kids but what they did to my family hurt us emotionally and financially, we are still trying to recoup 3 years later. I had a close relationship with my sister in laws daughter, she reached out to me on FB and requested to be my friend, I don't know what to do. Hubby doesn't want anything to do with his sister or her kids because of what happened. In my heart I can't be hateful, I forgave the kids, but I haven't forgotten. Trying to figure out what the best thing to do is. If I open my life to her, I also open it to my sister in law and I can't do that, as an adult I feel she had more control over the situation then what the kids did. What would you do?
Answer by lizzybee44 at 10:39 PM on Jun. 29, 2011
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