as Christians, we are constantlylearning! scratch that, I'M CONSTANTLY learning! i also have changed my mind regarding a lot of things...family, love, life, education, etc.
so, due to the maturing of my walk with Christ, i have gained a better understanding of why God wants us to wait until marriage to explore the wonderful world that is sex. He wants us to enjoy our husbands and wives within bounds of marriage...but, when we indulge in these things BEFORE saying 'i do'...that does have a major/profound impact on our lives.
so, am i the only gal who views sex differently now that i'm a little more mature than what i was a few years ago? has the idea of sex changed for any of you like it has for me (i.e. i see sex as a 'needed thing' and not a WANTED thing)?
i love my husband, i'm just not in-love with him most of the time. i know that sounds bad, but i would do and DO just about all that God requires of me in His word...it's just hard to be in love with someone who has wronged me the way he has.
so, am i alone?
My husband and I are atheists and we don't see anything wrong with pre-martial sex and my attitude hasn't changed with maturity. We will be celebrating 23 very happy years together in 9 days. We formed an intimate bond before marriage, that is how we knew that marriage was right for us and we weren't wrong.
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Answer by -Eilish- at 3:14 PM on Jun. 30, 2011
BTW ... I highly recommend this book Sex, Romance, and the Glory of God (With a word to wives from Carolyn Mahaney): What Every Christian Husband Needs to Know
Answer by -Eilish- at 3:16 PM on Jun. 30, 2011