My relationship with my husband is not as good as it was before we had my beautiful son...I'm talking about in every way...in bed...in the house...outside. He doesn't ask for sex as much anymore and if he does he does what he has to do and doesn't even care about me. He satisfies himself only and thats it. And in the house he comes home eats and go straight to the computer...not even wanting to spend time with me when he has been at work all day. He gets home at 8:30pm and he leaves at 7:30am. I sure would think he would miss me cause I sure do...but he doesn't even show any kind of passion or missing towards me when he gets home. And outside the house...we go out but not so much anymore...and if we did he would hold my hand or keep close to me but now he doesnt even hold my hand anymore or stay next to me..if we go to a store he will leave me behind and I follow him like a lost puppy...I need advice on what to do. This is driving me crazy and I'm at my breaking point...HELP PLEASE!!
I don't know if you are religious or not, but get the movie "Fireproof". Watch it while he is at work and get the "Love Dare" book. It helped my marriage SOOOO much. Also I learned marriage has stages this link gives you good insite on them.
Also, my husband and I have been married 11 years we have had our ups and downs. I've learned men (in general) are just as complicated as we are believe it or not. He probably doesn't even realize he is hurting you that is if you haven't told him. Now as for sex, tell him it's a two way street. Communication is key. Hope this helps.
Answer by luvmygrlz at 5:02 PM on Jun. 30, 2011
Answer by Candi1024 at 4:53 PM on Jun. 30, 2011
I heard a lot of guys get upset because they are not the center of attention any more.
Answer by louise2 at 5:17 PM on Jun. 30, 2011
Answer by earthmama727 at 5:23 PM on Jun. 30, 2011
Answer by lizzybee44 at 8:02 PM on Jun. 30, 2011