When my husband and I first started getting serious and started talking about marriage and yadda, yadda, yadda we agreed that we would have 4 kids...I already had my daughter from a previous relationship (she was 8 months old when my DH came into our lives and is the only daddy she knows) and we would have 3 more together....well our daughter is 4 now and we just had a son a month ago....I'm starting to think that I might be okay with just 2 kids... I've said that to him a few times over the last month but I think that he thinks I'm joking or something, or just tired or stressed out, whatever the case is, he doesnt think I'm serious....he still wants more kids and he wants to have them soon...like next year start trying to get pregnant again soon. I know that if we DID have another kid I would love him just the same and I know I wouldnt resent him OR my husband but I'm pretty content with the 2 I have.
How did you know when you were done having children? Did both you AND your husband/spouse agree on the number of children you were going to have beforehand? Did either of you change your mind and how did you deal with it?
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