Okay, so I'm around 15 pounds over weight and I'll admit its been 2 years since I had a baby so it's no longer babyfat, just weight I gained during pregnancy and wasnt able to go with the rest of the 10 pounds I lost.
Anywho, I try not to talk to him about how I feel about my weight because, I just don't feel like showing him that vulnerable side of me, he wouldnt understand with his eat the world and gain an ounce metabolism, I'm only 5 ft and weigh 135 pounds. I'm also pregnant again, and I know this one is going to be another 20 pounds, I'm hungry ALL the time.
Anywho, I told im I didnt want a kiss because he had morning breath, and he was like. "What the hell, I never call you out, your fat." I mean it was a joke, but it kind of stung.
Once upon a time ago, he had an affair with this tiny petite girl, when we got into our confrentation, she told me how fat I was, and my husband to enjoy moving fat rolls around for the rest of his life"
Once he said that, my eyes got a little watery, but I didnt let him see. It just reminded me of how much it hurt when she said it to him. After he cheated on me, I chose to stay with him but I closed my heart up from being vulnerable to him, he told her my secrets, and She told them right back to me. To be honest, I want to lose weight, its just school full time, work full time plus my little girl, and teaching sunday school class, is hard to juggle on top of going to the gym every day. I dont know if he really thinks I'm fat, or if he was really just joking. Should he even look at me like that? Idk... :(
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