I have a friend(we lost contact a couple years ago) that fiance just passed away while she was 6 months pregnant. She is going through a hard time emotionally and financially. I am trying to write her an email and I don't know what to say. Its like my brain don't function when I come into contact with someone who is mourning. I wanted to tell her that if she need anything that I am here for her and that I have some baby clothes and furniture if she need it. Do I just tell her that or do I mention her fiance? I don't want to come off as a bitch for not mentioning him, but I don't want to hurt her by mentioning him. Do you get what I am trying to say?
We don't live in the same town that is why I haven't visit her(besides I get nervous in situations like this). Me and dh is willing to pack this stuff up and make the drive to give it to her.
Answer by MommaB30 at 12:27 PM on Jul. 1, 2011
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Answer by Linda_PF at 12:49 PM on Jul. 1, 2011
Start out by saying you don't really know WHAT to say but you wanted her to know you're thinking about her, etc. Yes, I would definitely mention the fiance or she's gonna think you don't care.
Answer by 1smartcookie at 1:33 PM on Jul. 1, 2011
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