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Second chance, cuz 1st time was awful!!!! adult content

Situation, a friend and I, we've known each other for like 20+ years. Anyhow, we're both divorced and busy people. Anyhow, long story, short.
We've gotten together a few times, every few months. Well, we finally went all the way, had sex. To say the least, it was awful. It had been a long time for me and for him, I'm assuming.
Anyhow, we'd meet up at his ranch, a barn with a daybed, TV, refrigerator.
We watch a movie, laying on the daybed together and.
Well, he was not that good and he tried annal with me & I bleed. Which freaked him out.
Not so much me. BUT I later text and told him, it was my period that made me bleed and I did appolgize.
Besides that it was super hot in that barn, OMG... NO A/C and no fans. Umm, in South Texas.
PLEASE, Someone tell me, their first experiance with you S/O was odd or awful BUT you got a second chance?????????????
P.S. Do you think, size matters? I hope that not the only issue.


Asked by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Jul. 1, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • WOW- i'm sorry you had such a 1st Bad Experience! i am sure it will be a 2nd time but, before you do- tell him a Real Bed, AC & a Couple of Drinks would Help Out alot! LOL:) lots of luck!


    Answer by daisyb at 11:35 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • am sure this wont be the last time an practice makes perfect

    Answer by BOOKER123ABC at 11:31 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • hahaha hope it gets better the 2nd round

    Answer by Amberlovesher3 at 11:28 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • I had sex with a friend and the first time he went limp inside me (he was exhausted), but the 2nd time was MUCH better. Hopefully you can say the same!

    Answer by AF4life at 11:38 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • so he must be a bigger man to rip u, an no mine wasnt strange.

    Answer by BOOKER123ABC at 11:30 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • the blood was from annal but it did not work or he didn't get very far.
    the vaginal wasn't good but it could have been position or something.
    Just hoping next time is better. OMG, I'm evil for having thiese thoughts.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:33 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • First time for both was great, he was gentle and a damn expert. The only man who has ever made me orgasm :)

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 11:39 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • First time with my hubby was awful. It was up, it was down it was all over the place. He was nervous. After we got that one out of the way, it was fine.
    PS- ANAL sex requires a condom, lots of lubrication, a very trusting partner, and you have to be completely relaxed!

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:57 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • we did use protection, condoms.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:58 PM on Jul. 1, 2011

  • depends on the person.. sometimes they are just that bad sometimes they get better.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 12:06 AM on Jul. 2, 2011