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am going to be haven my baby tuesday an just scared about all the pain an trying to get my 3yr almost 4yr to understand whats going on we have explaind it to her over an over. but does she realy know whats going on. how will i handle 2 kids. will i be able to lov them both as much. will i have the same bond as i did with my first.

 
BOOKER123ABC

Asked by BOOKER123ABC at 12:13 AM on Jul. 2, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • You don't have to explain, that wouldn't really be developmentally appropriate anyway. Just do. Take her hand (figuratively) and nurturingly guide her along.
    :-)
    The relationship will not be the "same" with the new baby, but you will bond and love and nurture in the Right Way for this new little one.

    Good luck!

    doulala

    Answer by doulala at 2:16 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • i didnt mean i was going to explain the birth i was just saying we got books that shows baby growing in momma an then after momma is in the hospital the have a baby an then bring ti home an she has helped prepaire for this one by picking out its cloths to wear in hospital witch blankets an cleaning an folding laundry shes a big help
    BOOKER123ABC

    Comment by BOOKER123ABC (original poster) at 10:11 PM on Jul. 3, 2011

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