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Child 4yr.old

Would you let your ex spend weekends with your 4 yr.old if he was't the


Asked by Anonymous at 1:05 AM on Jul. 2, 2011 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • Depends on what you are talking about for father figure. He could be a good guy but not fatherly and it would be ok. If he's not a good influence, then no.

    Answer by attap5 at 9:16 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • yea agree with all of you , How long where you guys togther, was ur child and ex close his he a good father figure and doesn ur child want to visit him

    Answer by Cherriemama831 at 1:09 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • how long was your ex not an ex?

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:07 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • It depends on the kind of relationship they had. If they were close and he was a good father figure before then yes!

    Answer by harris4 at 1:07 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • not a good father figure, married 3yr.,child wants to go very attached to him

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:54 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • If he wasn't a good father figure, then NO. I would maybe let him come to group functions, or meet us out while I supervise.

    Answer by Kimedbs at 5:54 AM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • It just depends on the situation. Generally, though, no, I wouldn't. Unless the 4 year old only knew him as Dad, and ex felt the same way.

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 10:33 AM on Jul. 2, 2011