I'm so sad and confused. I feel neglected. Ready to be back home for my 7 week vacation with my girls and have my family around. We have been in Georgia a whole year now and I still have no friend and no life. Going to take some much needed time to think and reevaluate where I want to go in life and what my expectations are. If it comes down to it, I may just stay in Tucson and start fresh with my babies. I need to pick myself up off the ground and get motivated for the future.
Pat and I just don'e seem to be on the same page anymore. I love him to death. He complains I don't do enough around the house, I complain he doesn't show me enough affection. In order feel llike doing more than the bare minimum, I want to feel loved and appreciated. And he says in order for him to want to do those things for me I need to clean more. I don't work that way. I'm depressed, lonely and homesick. He works all day and I'm stuck at home with no vehicle. I'm just not happy, and apparently neither is he. I don't know what to do. I want more for myself than just being inside the house with kids all day. I love my girls, but they need a mom who is capable of much more. I'm supposed to be a role model and I don't have shit to show for what a great life I'm living. No accomplishments. And to top it all off, Pat is anti-marriage. No commitment what-so-ever. I dont NEED to get married, but something showing we are in this for life would be nice. Without that I kinda feel like I'm wasting my time. 6 years with him and all we have is a relationship where we coexist. We love eachother so much, but I just don't think we are right for eachother anymore
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