Ok my daughter is going into third grade, she is only child. I am not sure if that fact has anything to do with her attitude change. She used to express this quite a bit, asking me when or how she could get a brother or sister or what she needed to do to be able to get one etc. I told her God decides when a baby is coming and thats just how it is, she was not satisfied completely with that answer. She knows her Biological father and I were never married and that he is no longer in our lives. She asks me complicated questions about why God would choose to give a baby to 2 people who wouldn't be raising the child together and why if 2 people (myself and my husband, her Daddy) wouldn't be given a child and they would do it together.....anyway these questions go on and on. I am really trying but truth is, we haven't got pregnant yet and we haven't investigated the reasons why. Maybe its age (he is 49,I am 32) or maybe something else but that doesn't convince her either. It seems as if she is deeply bothered about not having a sibling, I have 3 brothers and he has 3 sisters and a brother so we don't know what it is like at all. Is this just a phase or should I look into this further and share more of the medical facts of life with her? I don't know what to do, truth is we really would like a baby too but her constantly talking about makes it that more frustrating for us that it hasn't happened.
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