I didnt know where to post this, but here we go. Please dont judge me either.
I feel like a terrible mother I ended up getting pregnant at 21 (we use bc but obviously doesnt always work), my now husband and i had our rough patches and we love our son to pieces he is our world, but there are times where i sit here and feel like I resent having him, I had to mature and grow up so quickly and our friends are all childless and still dont get that we cant go out all the time and we cant stay out late... But there are times where I miss that life (not the parties i wasnt much of a partier), but the freedom, I miss being able to go do whatever and now I am in debt due to the birth of my son, we had to take out a loan to get out own place and credit cards to buy the things we needed. I work 2 jobs and so does my husband just to pay bills.... My point here is sometimes i feel like i wish i never had him, sometimes i wish i never met my husband becuase if i didnt would i be here? like i said i feel awful for saying it, and i have spoken with my doctor they ruled out depression, maybe its normal to feel this way sometimes, but i feel like a horrible mother when i do feel this way... Currently my son is napping and my husband is at work so obviously my mind wanders so currently yes i kind of feel this way. I feel like everyone else who are our friends are doing so much better than us, and we just messed everything up... What can i do to stop feeling this way?? Help please.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:48 PM on Jul. 2, 2011 in Toddlers (1-2)
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