First off I wanna start by saying im young , im 20, married & have a baby. I got married when I was 19.... Please dont bash this post, if your going to stop reading, im looking for advice.
OK, My husband and I only dated 7 months before getting married. We go married after one semister of college. He really is the love of my life, great father, great husband. But while we were starting our first semister in college he had to go off to a differnt school. In August I got pregnant, and I also found out he was texting/ calling a girl that had gone to high school with us. It broke my heart. I was completly sick, I ended up losing the baby 4 weeks later. The dotors said it could have been stres related. I ended up staying with him. a few weeks later I got pregnant again & we got married. we've been married a little over half a year. I am still heartbroken over him going behind my back , lieing & deleting text. I cant let it go. I've tried to forgive him. I tried talking to her, I tried praying about it. Nothing has helped. Everytime i bring it up, it starts a huge fight. He's like its old crap and ive said sorry.
Today he finally said id have to stop bringing it up or it is going to ruin our marriage. He said since i decided to stay with him through that then i shouldnt bring it up.
Now im like should i have even gotten married to him, or should i have broken up with him then. I thought time healed all wounds....... it doesnt, it still hurts. I consider what he did as cheating because he lied. He had another relationship behind my back.Has anyone ever been cheated on? what happened?
mainly.... what helps?????
Asked by Anonymous at 5:55 PM on Jul. 2, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Fistandantalus at 5:59 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by pookiekins34 at 6:00 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by countrygirl06 at 6:05 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by Mommyx2BG at 6:07 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by amberpaiz at 6:09 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by Mommyx2BG at 6:12 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
WOW.. you are Young but, you are married & have a Baby so, it is time to grow-up.. if you really could not Forgive him for Texting another girl then NO- you should not of married him- but, you did & had a Baby- you need to decide if this is worth your marriage & family falling apart- if it is then you need to move on & if it is not then you need to Let it Go.. lots of luck!
Answer by daisyb at 6:31 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
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Answer by BrendaW. at 6:46 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:16 PM on Jul. 2, 2011
Next question overall
How old was your LO before you took them to the movies?