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STOP CONFUSING BASHING WITH DEBATING

de·bate
/dɪˈbeɪt/ [dih-beyt]   noun, verb, -bat·ed, -bat·ing.
-noun
1.
a discussion, as of a public question in an assembly, involving opposing viewpoints: a debate in the Senate on farm price supports.
2.
a formal contest in which the affirmative and negative sides of a proposition are advocated by opposing speakers.
3.
deliberation; consideration.
4.
Archaic . strife; contention.
  
  

bash

/bæʃ/[bash]
-verb (used with object)
1.
to strike with a crushing or smashing blow.
2.
Chiefly British, Canadian . to hurl harsh verbal abuse at.
.
-noun
3.
 a crushing blow.
4.
Informal . a thoroughly enjoyable, lively party.
 
 
Obviously when you enter a religious debate, both sides are going to be argued. Your beliefs or non-beliefs will be challenged or refuted. This is not bashing, and if you can't separate the two, don't enter a public debate forum and then cry about your beliefs or non-beliefs being bashed.

 
tnm786

Asked by tnm786 at 6:26 PM on Jul. 2, 2011 in Religious Debate

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Answers (43)
  • Be prepared for others to agree AND disagree with you and your ideas.


     


    When you post something, especially about a controversial topic, expect that your viewpoints and opinions may be vigorously questioned, challenged, and held up to scrutiny. If having your opinions challenged and being expected to defend your position will make you uncomfortable, please don't post about that topic.


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    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 6:30 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • I feel persecuted by this post. I am going to go write a journal about how you violated my beliefs by pointing out the obvious.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 9:00 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • OMG! Too funny! Sorry, a group of “adult” women having to be sat down like school girls because they get their panties in a wad when someone debates them. Bravo to you OP, LOL
    Kathy675

    Answer by Kathy675 at 6:34 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • but it goes for both sides.

    What "both sides"? Are you suggesting there's a group of people screaming about being debated with and demanding bashing instead?
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 8:18 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • lol NP :)
    bandgeek521

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 8:39 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • LOL. Thank you for the definitions. I'm sure some of us are too lazy to bother looking them up ourselves. I rarely see true "bashing" going on here.
    2autisticsmom

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 6:36 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • way to go


     


    Thanks OP.  That needed to be said (unfortunately).  

    judimary

    Answer by judimary at 6:37 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • Thank you! People are too damn sensative these days and don't even have the balls to take on an argument without being offended.
    Imogine

    Answer by Imogine at 8:41 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • Both sides of the DEBATE

    Was there somewhere in the OP that implied it was only addressing a single group of people?
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 8:52 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

  • LOL Obby
    Kaelansmom

    Answer by Kaelansmom at 9:05 PM on Jul. 2, 2011

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